Friday, May 23, 2008

Hug Your Child Extra Hard And Long Today



I feel compelled to write this post, as I am very emotional about the recent news from Steven Curtis Chapman's family.

Steven Curtis Chapman is a well known and respected Christian musician who, like Michael W. Smith, has also had several crossover hits. Steven is also one of Stacy's favorite musicians.

On Wednesday, their youngest daughter, Maria Sue, was accidentally run over and killed at their home. Maria Sue was their third child adopted from China, and was adopted through our agency, America World Adoption.

It was Steven's involvement with AWAA that helped us to decide to go with them as our agency to adopt Sophie, and he and his family have been very strong advocates of adoption for quite some time, including setting up a foundation, Shoahannah's Hope, to help families afford to adopt.

When I heard the news yesterday (Thursday), I instantly felt tears in my eyes as I imagined the same thing happening to Sophie. My God, I can't imagine a more terrible thing in the world - just thinking about it brings the emotions and tears back.

Everyone reading this, please pray for Steven and his family in this tragic time.

If you would like to donate on behalf of their daughter, they have set up a special fund under Shoahannah's hope in memorial to Maria Sue:
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Every dollar goes to a family waiting to bring their child home.

I hugged Sophie extra hard and extra long when I got home last night.

Cherish every minute you have with your kids - every second is a precious gift - don't let it slip by!

Larry

Wednesday, May 14, 2008

Sophie's First Orthopedic Appointment

Monday was, in many ways, a monumental day for us.

First, and most importantly, it was Sophie's first orthopedic appointment at Gillette Children's Specialty Health care. The appointment with a dream team of doctors and professionals that would help Sophie to get her prosthetics.



Secondly, it was the first time Sophie threw up with us. A lot.

About halfway to the clinic, Sophie had her first smaller attack. We scrambled to get her cleaned and changed into a spare set of clothes, and to clean the car seat.

She didn't have a fever, and after the spell was over, she was her normal cheery self. Until she threw up again on 35W, with us less than 10 minutes away from the clinic.

Stacy was adamant that she was sick, and that we needed to go back home (an hour's trip). I told her that we had to go, and that I truly didn't think Sophie was sick - that maybe she had a nervous stomach, or had some bad milk. Her lack of other symptoms had me feeling certain of my conclusion.

We continued on, and with less than 10 feet before being parked in the poorly designed parking ramp, Sophie threw up again, completely covering the blanket Stacy was covering her with, and getting Sophie's spare shirt messy as well.

We didn't have another shirt, we were at the clinic, and Stacy was upset, nearly demanding that we go home - she was convinced that they would see her as sick, and turn us around. I convinced her that we'd need to go in anyway to clean Sophie up, and that we could ask the clinic staff what we should do.

We went in, checked in (and there wasn't a problem with Sophie having an upset tummy) and Stacy went to the gift shop to get a new shirt for Sophie. Unfortunately, at the children's hospital gift shop the smallest shirt they had was for a four year old...



But it worked.

Sophie got her height and weight measured, screaming the whole time. She's now 77.5 cm and 21.5 pounds - which, if accurate, is a pound and 1/2 cm more than she was 2 months ago. We'll have a better measure when she goes to our GP next week and she's measured by the same person who did it before.

Sophie also hated getting X-rayed, and screamed for about twenty minutes as they took the needed pictures of Sophie's right arm and leg.

We then went to room Blue 3, and met our pediatric orthopedic team!



We had the head doctor, Dr. Lang, as well as a surgeon and three people on the prosthetic team.

Fortunately, Sophie doesn't need any surgery, just some bionics! Okay, maybe not bionics, but give them a few years...

After some consultation, and finding out that we could do our follow-ups in Maple Grove (only 45 minutes away, not 90). We went to get Sophie's casts made.



Surprisingly, she almost enjoyed it. I admit that her sitting on my lap probably helped a lot, but she was very patient and allowed the doctor to hold the casts as they set.

Here's her finished arm cast:



Then came her leg:





Hopefully we'll have an appointment yet this week for the first "check sock" fitting, and after that it'll probably be another week for the "final" fitting of the nearly finished piece where final tweaks and adjustments are made. A few days later, we should have Sophie's new leg!

So, it looks like she might have her new leg before her grandpa Calvin comes to town at the end of the month!

The arm will take longer, and probably won't be ready until late June - though we aren't that worried about the arm right now.

I admit, I can't wait until she can walk and run completely on her own - it's going to be awesome.

That is all for now - I'll come back later in the week with some video - may be this weekend, depending on what is going on the next few days...

Talk to you later!

Larry

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

Sophie's Dedication

On Sunday (mother's day) Sophie had her dedication at our church.

Our church is part of the Christian and Missionary Alliance, which is very similar to the baptist denomination, where children are dedicated (parents promise to raise their children in a christian home) instead of baptised (baptisms are a choice later in life)

Sophie's aunt Allison bought her a very nice dedication dress - she looked beautiful in it!



Sophie's only been to church with us a few times, but she loves music and claps or raises her hand when she likes the song.



I'll get the video up this week - but Sophie was a card during the dedication portion of the service - shaking her head at the pastor when he asked to hold her (the entire church laughed!)

While the pastor was praying, she was poking my eyes, since I had them closed...



She received a beautiful blue an green dedication quilt from the church, and I was a very proud papa.

After the service, we took our moms (and my sisters and aunt) out to a Chinese buffet for mother's day.

I made a card for Stacy as if it came from Sophie (who signed it), and she really liked it.

It was a good day!

Friday, May 9, 2008

Sophie Gets Her Ears Lowered

Well, I'm getting this post up within two weeks of the actual event, so that's not so bad, is it?

Two weeks ago tomorrow (Saturday April 26th) I took Sophie through a blizzard to get her hair cut. (It really was snowing badly that morning - gotta love Minnesota!)

Sophie was looking a little shaggy, so it was definitely time for a trim...



Sophie, if she was a mob boss...



The stylist that helped her was very nice, and showed Sophie the clippers and let her touch them before she used them...



Sophie was the most well behaved kid I've ever seen getting a hair cut (of course, she is perfect). No crying, no fidgeting -she just sat there calmly.



And here's my pretty girl wanting to be picked up after getting all prettied up!



Afterward we stopped at the grocery store and picked some soup up - when it's that cold, wet and snowy, it's a soup day!

Since then the nice people I work with threw Sophie a welcome home shower, with cake and tons of presents - it was very nice to have that kind of support from my friends and coworkers!

It's two days until Mother's day - I have to make up some cards for Stacy soon... maybe tomorrow? :)

Just a reminder to friends and family - Sophie's dedication will be at 9 AM on Mother's day at Riverside Alliance Church, and we will follow that with lunch at 11 at the King Buffet in Big Lake. See you all there!

Larry